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Question:
I just got my news today. I feel like i did something wrong and now will pay for it for the rest of my life. Can i have sex again, eventually? Will anyone want to touch me? I am single so does this mean i will be an outcast? How do i go about having a relationship again? I''m freaking out!!!!!!?
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Yes, I promise you your life will be normal. Don''t be stressed. It's not a big deal.
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some day yes you will be able to have sex again, people will want to touch you, i''m single and it is hard to be dating with no sex, I know its hard now and it will be hard for a long time, the only thing that has helped me is realizing how much worse it could be. i have been working on being more independent and trying to be happy and healthy before worrying about sex and relationships. a boy/girl friend is not going to make you happy, you have to do that for yourself.
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i personally dont have this condition so im not one that can tell you first hand but I do have PPP so i did have bumps on my penis and was told they could be warts, i was scared and freakin out goin through that and i realized that if somebody really loves you they wont care, they will accepted it.
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To the person who said "dude, you are skrewd," get real and show some compassion. It is normal to feel violated and dirty because of the HPV infection. Consider that as many as 100,000,000 Americans may be carrying HPV, so you are not alone. It is currently the most common STD. Try to be patient. In time the condition will likey improve. Many people are carriers but have no symptoms. The chances of you encountering a person who is a carrier is very good.
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I have the same problem. I got diagnosed with HPV just a couple weeks ago, and i''m only 17. When the doctor told me that I have precancerous cells and abnormal cells, I started to cry. The first thing that popped into my head was cervical cancer. She told me everything was going to be okay, but i mean what about my future? How will i ever have kids? Will it turn into cancer? What man is going to want to be with a woman who has this terrible virus? Trust me I ask myself the same questions everyday, I even cry from time to time because I think i'm going to die, but i try and cheer myself up. And just like you, i looked up just about everything there is to know about HPV on the internet, and some of the things i've read, i almost fainted. I read stuff about hysterectomys and how women had to get them when they have HPV, but hopefully that's only when you don't catch it in time. I haven't had sex in 3 months, i'm too scared to because i'm worried about passing the disease to my partner, and i'm worried about the disease getting worse. Most likely you will have to get a colposcopy and a biopsy. The colposcopy is when they put a microscope into your vagina so that they can see your cervix and then they put vinegar on it so that the infected tissue will turn white. In the biopsy they have to cut off some pieces of your infected cervix tissue to see how far your HPV is and if cancer is present. The biopsy hurts, it feels like they pinch the cervix and then rip off the pieces, i screamed. But don't worry, chances are you won't have cancer, they will treat the infected area before it progresses into that. So many women have HPV it's unbeleivable. It's just like catching a cold, because that's how common and easy it is to catch HPV. I'm still waiting on my biopsy results, and i'm a nervous wreck, but i'm praying and hoping everything will be okay, and I hope everything is okay with you too because I know exactly how you feel right now. You feel low down, like your life was snatched away from you and there's no way you can get it back. Just think positive, keep a healthy lifestyle. Yes guys will still want to date you, no you're not an outcast because thousands of people have HPV, yes you will have sex again. Don't beat yourself up, everything will be okay. I hope i made you feel a little better. Thankyou.
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You are only freaking out because of the lack of social understanding regarding this infection. Walk into a room with 100 people in it and you''d be amazed at how many people have or have had and STI. I contracted HPV six months ago and I know exactly who gave it to me. At first I was crushed. I thought that I'd get no more girlfriends or never have any children but I began to take stock and think rationally about it. Who knows what the future will hold? But if you take care of yourself and try and stay positive then everything will be fine.
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OK, first of all, you need to get them removed and then you will be fine. I can tell you everything that is going to happen from the moment you wake up till the moment you walk out of the hospital and walk into your house. feel free to contact me via email. Spartanqb_99@Yahoo.com
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I don''t reckon it's the end o' the world, mate!
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I TOLD MY EX -BOYFRIEND and he still loves me and wants to make it work. Don''t just spraed hpv, talk about it. alot of women have hpv. men too. if it ain't warts or cancer then don't trip just alwasy use rotection and ask for the new vaccine out for protection against hpv.
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Hey! I was diagnosed with HPV last year! And you know what?! I''m steel hate myself for that night of unprotected sex! The only thing that makes me feel a little better that it is not cancer! I've met a wonderful girl a month ago ....We start dating...Whats next?! Now I got a problem! How am i supposed to tell her that i have freaking virus? I'm so afraid, but i MUST let her know...this is just a way I am! I see here some comments from girls...well, how would you explain to your partner that u have HPV?! Did anyone have that kind of experience?
And just want say to everybody! HEY, we are still alive and we will be! Its not HIV it only sounds like it! Remember it could be better and it also could be WORTH!
Peace!
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I found out I had HPV a week ago and I felt so stupid because I trusted my boyfriend. I''m twenty and I worry if I will ever date again to. I try to look at the postitive side to it which is really hard to do. Look at it now you have time to really get to know someone before you have sex with them.Look on the bright side honey it could be the big disease with the little name. Take it one day at a time and learn as much as you can.
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I found out I had HPV a week ago and I felt so stupid because I trusted my boyfriend. I''m twenty and I worry if I will ever date again to. I try to look at the postitive side to it which is really hard to do. Look at it now you have time to really get to know someone before you have sex with them.Look on the bright side honey it could be the big disease with the little name. Take it one day at a time and learn as much as you can.
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i feel the same why. I wonder how i.m gonna tell the next person i want to be with. i wonder if i.ll ever be wanted again. but some how i think it.ll be ok. i.m still young i.m hoping my body will get ride of it. or i.ll find someone that thinks i.m worth it. idk about the last part. but i still have hope.
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