Hi, Im 24 years old last year I discovered that Im infected with HPV, Im from Mexico, and trust me it has been one of the worst experiences in my life.
I got this from my ex boyfriend we had a lond distance relationship and I think that was the main problem maybe, you know, he cheated on me while he lived in the Rich Coast or I really dont know, he was from Wyoming and we were supposed to get together last August but well thats not the point, the point is that when I knew about this I sent him an e mail, and he was all surprised then he called me and he didnt believe it, I was virginĦĦĦ but he never claimed anything so now u have the answer ....... and when I last saw him face to face he said to me "I think u got that from a bathroom cause I was blood tested and Im fine" what a dorkĦĦĦĦ I explained him the whole thing and he insisted on that, well finally we broke up but Im sure he stills spreading that disease wherever he is now,and thats what HPV and many other STDs are about, I think that the real disease is in peoples heart and in the fact of being selfish, so all of us that are ill now, lets just be nice with others and lets tell them about this virus, but owr life its not over, and I know that phrases like "the one that loves you is going to accept you like this" thats not that truth its difficult and just like you I feel alone or "dirty" but at least we are not the "lying bastards" so for sure we will find someone, or maybe your next couple have it too and doesnt know about it right? so in the meantime lets be brave and lets pray for medicine to find a vaccine, and go onĦĦĦ
HUGS FROM MEXICOĦĦĦĦ
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7/14/2003
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My ex is doing the same as yours, I think it is wrong, especially because he knows he has it and is violating other peoples bodies.
7/21/2003
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sinsere
I personally feel that men are very self-fish about spreading hpv. I am sorry to stereotype men, but in my experience they dont seem to care as much about catching it or spreading it. Denial...
7/28/2003 8:33:04 PM
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JJ
Being a guy I honestly would feel horrible giving this to someone. Mentally this has trashed me and I would hate to put that on someone else. I will add that men are generally careless but women can be equally so...
9/9/2003 2:12:30 AM
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shyne
I just found out this year that I have HPV and I'm a guy. I'd feel bad if I gave the disease to anyone else, but I am also depressed that I have to be with the girl I gave it to forever. It sux because she's not the one I want.
9/11/2003 12:42:59 AM
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C-
You and your girl are not the only ones in the universe who have HPV. Which means you aren't "stuck" with her forever. Just because you have HPV doesn't mean you have an excuse to stay in a relationship you don't want. As you can see in these message boards, there are other people infected the same as you.
10/19/2003 8:47:30 PM
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mysteek
i have hpv, if i was to have unpretected sex with my boyfriend, what are the chances of giving it to him
