heres the deal, we are all faced with choices in our lives, what we dont realise is that some choices will infact, effect the rest of our lifes. so we can choose to dwell on bad choices, or we can learn from them live with them and be better people because of them.I'm not talking about the choice of having sex with a person and becoming infected,that has already happened and we cant change that. im talking about dealing with it now,the choice of being a marter and dwelling on this,or overcoming this,after all this is not a physical disease its an emotional disease.
Im a 24 yr male and just last week i found out i had hpv it was very small and could have been there for a long time the docter said. and im currently seeing the girl of my dreams. and im trying to deal with the fact that i may have inadvertantly infected her.that guilt is the worst thing in the world!!!, but she being so great has said " we do what we gotta do and get on with our life", that statement allone has made me fall more in love with her 10 fold...so we do what we gotta do!! and every one out there that thinks there life is over, fuck that!! . think of it as putting every thing into perspective, and think of all that you do have!! life aint easy we all know that.....
james
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7/3/2003
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John
I hope that some day I find a woman as wonderfull and loving as yours. You are lucky. Remember that everday and you will never be depressed.
7/28/2003 8:17:43 PM
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JJ
I hope that I am as lucky as you to find someone so understanding. You are right about this being a mental disease...that is the worst part by far.
8/11/2003 3:16:23 PM
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a
Wow. I wish I could find a man as understanding as you. I am 24 and have had dsy. for 3 years. There are no outward signs but mentally I am still a mess. I am always honest with guys who seem to be interested... but after I tell them I get a big slap in the face for honesty. It is so hard to pick myself up after guy after guy rejects me because of this... I can only hope I find the right one who will love me no matter what..
10/23/2003 12:29:58 PM
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ABC
I couldn't agree with you more.