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Posted:
10/21/2003
please help
Just need to get this whole thing off my chest. During the summer I went to a friend's party where i had my drink spiked. I was taken to a nearby field and raped by two men. I knew it was happeneing but couldnt move a muscle or make a sound. I can't bring myself to tell anyone about this face to face. Anyway i finally plucked up the courage to go to my local gum clinic where i was diagnosed with hpv and genital warts. I am absolutely devastated. I am only 17 and feel so cheated. I am very bitter about the whole thing and don't know how to move on. It is all i think about, from when i wake up until i go to sleep.I can't stop crying and have given up on the prospect of ever having another boyfriend. I would not be able to tell them. Please help me come to terms with this i need to make sense of it all.
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10/21/2003 5:45:15 PM
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I don't know what to tell you...maybe
some of the women can help out here.
I hope things get better for you
though...I'm sure they will.
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10/21/2003 5:46:51 PM
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R
I was recently diagnosed with HPV, and
I am devastated too. I'm a 24 year old
male, and I don't know where I got it
from. I know what you mean when you
say not having a partner again, but I
think that should be the least of your
concern considering you were raped by
two men. You need to prosecute them.
You don't have to tell anyone you have
HPV, unless that it's the last straw in
a court trial against the men.
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10/21/2003 11:09:17 PM
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Well if you feel you need to step up
and press charges and go that route
you don't have to disclose the
warts....you can keep hte rape stuff
separate...the charges will still hold
or at least they should. I'm so sorry
to hear your story. I've done some
not so great things in my life but
rape goes so far beyond any of
them...that is so wrong. Things will
work out in the end though...I wish
you the best of luck.
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10/24/2003 7:39:13 PM
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undertow21
thats a blow..... oh well im 17 too and
i don't know anything about having a
partner in my life at all, I've taken
it really well though with high hopes
of things getting better (you should
too).
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10/26/2003 5:01:56 PM
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Hec.
Well, one of my best friends was raped
twice! I went though it along with her
and she got over this! Be strong enough
and don't ever lose your hope...never!
Take it into acount, I'll wil help you
as much as I can. No matter how, but I
will. Just contact me, I got
experienced about this and know I can
give you a helping hand
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10/29/2003 6:41:38 PM
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ed
well, first off you need to tell
someone that you were raped and
prosecute them. I am a police officer
in florida and i do not know where this
happened, but in florida if you get a
std during a rape it makes it s first
degree felony punishable up to life in
prison, depending on the type of std.
What I want to also put out is that I
too have HPV and do not know exactly
where I got it from, and worry about
others out there now.
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