10/23/2003 2:51:55 PM
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seeker
If you are an American I'm sure that there is a way to sue. "Duty of Care" and all that. Especially if it is known to cause cancer, I think these things are almost sexual assault... Negligence anyway.
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10/23/2003 5:43:30 PM
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I was under the impression that the HPV types that cause warts are NOT the ones that cause cervical cancer. I think suing is going overboard though IMO. Get on with your life, if I'm right and it's just the kind that causes warts then they will go away in time anyway. Let's start suing people for passing pneumonia next...
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10/23/2003 5:59:36 PM
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seeker
You haven't read the thread properly, nowhere does the poster say that they had visible warts. I am guessing they had their HPV typed and it's #16 or something. Anyways, if you can prove that the person who gave it to you knew they had it and didn't inform you, then they've done something unethical, possibly illegal. Doctors have to tell patients the risks involved with treatments, they call it "informed consent". Go ahead and seek legal advice.
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10/23/2003 6:04:26 PM
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seeker
In toronto, the board of health was charging people for breaking SARS quarantines. There's some precedent there, don't be facetious. HPV 16 causes cervical cancer 1 in 70 cases. SARS killed one in 114. : ( I'd say there's injury involved.
BTW, pneumonia is not a communicable disease, smartass...unless it's atypical pneumonia aka SARS.
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10/23/2003 6:05:00 PM
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She said the kind that causes warts and the kind that causes cancer. Which one is it?? Both?? I kinda find that hard to believe.
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10/23/2003 6:13:04 PM
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Sorry, not trying to be a jerk and I'm truly sorry for this person, it's not fun and we are all there. But the statement, "If you are an American I'm sure that there is a way to sue", just rubs me the wrong way. Suing does not fix problems and I hate the way people turn to suing to fix things, this isn't a rape case or something. Even if i knew who gave me this I still wouldn't see a point in suing.
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10/23/2003 6:26:53 PM
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seeker
I think people who intentionally infect other people deserve to get some kind of ethical backlash. I got mine through someone else's gross mismanagement of their own health. I was oblivious to these risks. Too bad for me.
Americans can successfully sue for all kinds of injury (Classic case, hot coffee burning someone's lap, awarded cash). So why not? I would if I could. We shouldn't just go around including people in the HPV club.
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10/23/2003 6:37:37 PM
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Intentionally infect?? Careless..yes, but I wouldn't call it intentional. And I'm sorry, your coffee case is a prime example of why our country is going down the drain..frivolous lawsuits. I wasn't responsible enough to really know someone before I had sex with them so lets start suing...good...greed is good. Sad, really sad.
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10/23/2003 6:40:44 PM
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seeker
You're emphasizing the greed side, I'm emphasizing the punitive side to an injurious act. I'm not going to bother explaining the logic behind my argument any further. There is no real justice in the world anyway.
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10/23/2003 6:41:52 PM
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And I never said that spreading HPV is good or ethical or anything but to me suing is just as wrong when you were the one who was careless in not knowing who you were really sleeping with. I was careless, I trusted that the person I was sleeping with was clean...they weren't...my fault whether they knew or not..I'm not trying to put my careless on someone else via a lawsuit.
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10/23/2003 6:44:38 PM
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I wrote the original message. I have 2 different knids of HPV. The kind that causes warts and the kind that can cause cervical cancer. My Doctor sayd that it is very common to contract more than one strain from the same person. My point more than anything, is that I think people who don't reveal their condition should face some consequence. I understand there is probably nothing I can do, I just feel very violated.
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10/23/2003 6:48:30 PM
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I don't feel I was being careless either. I knew this person for over six months before I slept with them. That's what makes it so hard to take. I feel like I was being cautious and I certainly don't consider myself irresponsible.
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10/23/2003 6:48:36 PM
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seeker
well apparently they knew, they knowing passed it on... Tough to prove but extremely unethical anyway. Well, we really rely on other people to protect us, that's the nature of society... unfortunately, there are people in the world who would cause injury to other people for their own gains... That's what laws are in place to prevent. It boils down to who can we really trust? No one? Everyone? Sucks, doesn't it?
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10/23/2003 6:49:04 PM
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I'm sure you can do something like Seeker said. I don't agree with it but if someone can bring up a lawsuit for being an idiot and spilling coffee on themselves then you can certainly bring one up for this. Lawsuits aside, I'm sorry to hear your story there are many others on this site too so you got support here if you need it. Best of luck to you.
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10/23/2003 6:50:36 PM
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seeker
it would be better if there was some kind of a legal side to it to prevent people from going around knowingly infecting others, but we aren't there yet. But as far as proving the person knowingly infected you, there may be medical records etc. Find justice for yourself, I guess. I'm pretty lost in this universe.
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10/23/2003 6:51:34 PM
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seeker
Anon is right in a way. But I wish we could stop people from acting unethically.
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10/23/2003 6:53:18 PM
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seeker
The US has more probs than lawsuits these days, I hope you guys can sort it out because your country has a huge role to play in the future of the planet!!! This isn't the forum for that kind of thing tho.
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10/23/2003 6:56:04 PM
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You know what it is for me, if I had the time and effort and money to hire a lawyer and go to court and deal with all that stuff, I'd rather put that effort into donating $1000 or so to an organization that contributes to the vaccines or something...focus on something that will help us all instead of fixing my broken past that's all. I kinda feel that people will get their just desserts without lawsuits. We'll beat this it's just gonna take time.
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10/23/2003 6:56:56 PM
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Tell me about the US these days, Seeker, it's bad and our country has many problem...but you're right...well beyond this board.
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10/23/2003 7:05:02 PM
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seeker
Since we brought types of HPV (more on topic), are you a male and have you had your stuff typed? I know HPV types often co-exist, but I'd still like to know what I have... I'm having a hard time trying to get MDs to listen to me. They see little bumps and say "oh, that's not HPV". YEah right! I had sex with a person who later advised me they were positive, bumps start showing and I'm supposed to buy that? Damn. What does one do? They seem kinda ignorant in canada!
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10/23/2003 7:43:18 PM
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The ignorance isn't just in Canada, my doctor said, don't worry about, that's definitely not HPV...basically brushing me off. I went back when they were larger and she couldn't ignore them and said it was HPV. But no, I wasn't typed, to try to get her to do that would be impossible.
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10/23/2003 7:44:32 PM
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Also, I'm concerned about this multiple type thing...could I have more than just the one type of visible warts?? I thought at least before if I met someone I could say, "yeah they'r unsightly but at least the type I have isn't harmful". Now with multiple types I'm not so sure.
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10/23/2003 7:52:05 PM
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seeker
Yeah, I know... grim stuff. You also don't know if any of the vaccines will help. I was told to go to a dermatologist by the director of rrpwebsite.org but I've been really busy. You're rigth about getting back into shape. the events of the past 3 years have been trying and I'm physically a mess now. Maybe they'll clear up if I get my sh!t together... Who knows.
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10/23/2003 7:54:58 PM
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seeker
The best thing would be custom made vaccines, then it wouldn't matter what type we have. Unlikely to see that for a long time tho. Supposedly that technology is more commonly used in Latin countries, so maybe I should learn spanish and search the web some more : S
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10/23/2003 9:14:06 PM
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But if they made a legit vaccine, wouldn't it make sense to make one that cures all the types?? That would be so much bigger of a market from a money perspective. I assume that doing it for every protein type would be the same but I could be wrong, I dont' know.
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10/24/2003 11:18:41 AM
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seeker
I can't speculate on that, the science is beyond me. If you review the info on the web re: vaccines and hpv you may find the answers for yourself... The main problem as I see it the the sheer number of HPV virus types that exist... over 100, by some accounts. The most "multivalent" treatments so far only protect against 5-6 max... : (
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10/24/2003 9:59:58 PM
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Hmmm, I was under the assumption that if they could do one then they could do all and put all the ones they could muster into one vaccine. So basically unless I have the type that brings on cervical cancer I should forget about any vaccine just for warts.
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