12/18/2003 11:10:05 PM
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cf
There is no way to know how long it took to get your warts. They could appear three weeks after infection or 10 years!! How frustrating is that?!! Unless you have only had sexual contact with one person in your life, you can't know who you got them from. Try not to be freaked out. I was when I found out but when you realise how common it is you feel a lot better about it. Keep positive, use Aldara and hopefull it'll all go away.
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12/19/2003 1:30:33 AM
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Maggie
I noticed warts about 6 months after continued sexual activity with my unaware, infected boyfriend. The person he got it from gave it to him at least a year before that, and he didn't see warts until after I did. CF is right: it's completley unpredictable. I think it's reasonable to be concerned, but don't beat yourself up. JUst be aware of any changes down there, and take care of it when it happens.
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12/19/2003 10:37:58 AM
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Sarah
Does he have warts? Is that why you think you have HPV? I recommend going to a doc and getting a pap smear done, just to ease your mind, unless you have had one very recently and it cam back normal.
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12/19/2003 10:38:06 AM
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Sarah
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12/19/2003 10:42:05 AM
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Sarah
This virus had so many strains and is so common, it's true, most sexually active people carry it from time to time. Don't worry about warts until you get a wart. You can't use Aldara on healthy, symptomless skin. Just stop worrying, but like I said, get a pap smear done to rule out cervical HPV infection. I have read that some docs recommend women get new paps with every new sex partner they have.
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12/19/2003 5:53:37 PM
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DrM
If you are really worried (and no one can blame you) use this time to get a lot of vitimins, antioxidents, and excersize. stay away from little kids, and keep your immunity up-it can keep them from developing in the event that you did get the virus
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12/19/2003 6:14:16 PM
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Original Poster
Thanks for the responses, guys. To Sarah, yes, he did have a wart, which he told me was a mole until recently. I was suspicious, so I avoided contact with it, although he did rub parts that didn't have warts on me, which I know can be just as bad. Also, I am concerned about genital-to-hand transfer (cont'd).
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12/19/2003 6:18:36 PM
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Original Poster
(cont'd) To DrM, thanks for the advice, that is my current game plan. I've always been an avid exerciser and taken my vitamins, now I just have to focus on getting enough sleep and not stressing too much over this or the anger I have toward my ex. I really wish I knew what my chances are of avoiding warts (it's the surgery to get rid of internal ones that I'm so worried about).
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12/19/2003 6:19:23 PM
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Original Poster
Like I said, the ASHA person said only a small % of people develop warts, so I'm going to do my best to be in the majority. Thanks again; this is a great support network.
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12/19/2003 6:58:20 PM
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oh-don't worry about the surgury for internal ones...not a lot of nerves up there (if there were childbirth would kill you from pain!) seriously, if you get 'em and they are internal you are still going to be ok...the external ones seem to cause more shame and stress.
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12/20/2003 12:37:24 AM
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tracy
It took me about seven months from the time I knew my partner was infected. Although we had sex for a couple months prior. Best of luck for you I know how it feels to wait and see.
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12/20/2003 2:19:34 AM
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Original Poster
I never thought about the lack of nerves internally -- that does make me feel a little better. Thanks!
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