I remember it like it was yesterday. It was so weird i wounld have never even considered this being able to happen to me. I always was for sex safe and i am a good girl, i don't sleep around with people. and i am very faithful. so can some one tell me how this could happen to me. I remember when my ex called me. we were talking and he was telling how things were going with his new girl. but he brought up that he was having growths on the head rim of his penis. so i never wounld have even considered a std, so i said was he using any thing new like soap or a new condom etc. he said he was using spermicide he never used it before. so i said that you are probably havig a reaction to it so stop using it. then about 2 weeks later i talked to him again. so i asked if his rash when away. he said no he thinks that there getting bigger and there are more growing. he started to cry he was so scared and worried. he said what if i got herpes from this nasty bitch. well i was like does it hurt when you pee? he said no. So i asked did he have any discharge from your penis? he said no. I asked him if it hurt when he had sex? he said no. I didn't know what to say to him. he really did not have any systoms of any thing i ever heard of. so we left it with a good bye and talk to you later. about a week and a half later he calls to tell me he when to the doctors and the told him some bad news that he had something. I said what, he did not have any systoms that i ever read about, or heard. he said it was genital warts. i said what the hell is that. i never heard of it before. he said in is very comon that 3 out of every 4 or 5 people have this disease. i m like so what did you say to her, i don't need to say nothing to her. doctor to me it takes 3-4 months to show up. i wasn't with her 3 months ago. i was with you. i said what i can't have std i use condoms with every one i don't know like that. he said well in some cases condoms won't protect you from it. so i started to cry i said why me, would have never done this to any one why i m being puninished. he wasn't mad but he had to go he said go to the doctors as soon as you can to get treated for it. so i hung up the phone, and just crawled into my bed and cry for like 30 minutes. but i started to think of the people i had sex with in the last 6 months. there was only 3, my ex,fort dix cop, and a old friend of mine. i had unprotected sex with all of then at less 2. but it hit me i knew who it was. the fort dix cop i heard back in the day he was nasty, he slept with every one and everything. and he was tested at less 3 times when he was 17. i heard this all after we stop sleeping with each other. but how was i to know, i wouldn't i will never know.
if you think our know you have a std please don't give it to people that don't know. ok you don't want that to happen because good people out there that don't desever to have this happen to them, and it didn't desever to happen to you either but why no stop the spread of stds and maybe they could find away to cure it. thank you for hearing me out
YALL BE SAFE
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1/30/2004 10:56:33 PM
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It doesn't matter if your a good person. Just because you think your a good person doesn't mean nothing is ever going to happen to you. We never thought this was going to happen, but it did. We didn't know these people that we had sex with had this. It's not our fault, that is how we got it. Or if we had sex with someone else without us knowing that we had this. It's not that we are bad people that are trying to spread this.
1/30/2004 11:03:16 PM
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And I know that no one here would intentionally have sex with someone just to spread this, so please think before you say things (or type things. lol ) Thanks =)
1/31/2004 8:55:35 AM
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Dr
if you konw you have hpv, pls don't give it to your new partner in future
1/31/2004 9:01:21 AM
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Joe
Wow Dr, that's the only sensible thing you've said yet.
1/31/2004 10:04:19 AM
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Jodie
Don't let your ex-boyfriend blame this on you! It only took me a week to break out with GW. One of my friends had a similar experience. It has nothing to do with being a bad person. It has everthing to do with being human. Someday Merck will have a vaccine for this and we can worry about something else! Nobody spreads infections on purpose!!
1/31/2004 3:55:54 PM
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blondee
jodie a week? How do you know that it was that person? Just curious. I have heard 3, but 1 wk seems so short.
1/31/2004 6:07:21 PM
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crzygurl
yea 1 week is short my ex got his before i got mine at less of what i could see. but it was like 3-5 months before i felt any thing
2/10/2004 10:43:52 AM
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Well i got this from by b/f whom ive been with for 3 years, hes the only man ive ever slept with, so i know i got this from him, but hes never had warts, and im completely covered, so you cant listen to what others say, not much is known about this virus.
