1/30/2004 4:45:27 PM
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Joe
Well said.
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1/30/2004 5:58:42 PM
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weaky
I just found out I am infeated a few
days ago, I have gentital warts, and
had been had an acid treatment once. I
have no idea who gave it to me and I
think I gave it to someone before I
know it. I talk to the doctor and she
said you will never know who is
infected and who is not, and so no idea
about who is transmitting who.
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1/30/2004 6:01:59 PM
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weaky
I has been with a guy for 4 years, and
he cheated on me at least 3 times in
the relationship. He said he used
condoms too. And then I grew older and
start meet guys "out there". I am not a
person that will kick someone's nuts
hard when they take moves on me. So I
had quite a lot of situaions that I was
saying No, and gently pushing them
away, and it did not work. I think all
of you know how guys are when they are
horny. They just kept doing.
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1/30/2004 6:04:43 PM
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weaky
I haven't seen anything like warts on
others' penis of the guys that I had
sex with. But I know that I had
unprotected sex with 2 guys after I had
bumps and I did not know they are
warts. 1 of them, I had sex with him 3
months ago too. There is another guy
that we did not actually had sex, but
his penis was inside me for about 2
pushes. I don't know if that will get
me the warts.
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1/30/2004 6:20:51 PM
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weaky
I am not thinking, if the guy that I
had sex with 3 months ago does not show
any symptons, and I have warts 3 weeks
ago. I did not know that, and I had sex
with him again. Will he get the warts
or he has already got the virus and
will not have an outbreak?
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1/30/2004 6:38:18 PM
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Joe
Guys maybe pushy but nobody put a gun
to your head and made you have sex so
don't go blaming the guys there.
Furthermore, he may or may not get
warts..just can't tell.
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1/30/2004 7:09:54 PM
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weaky
I understand that. I am not blaming
guys. But I am jst saying I am not
rough enough to refuse them, and not
all guys will stop with a "no" or a
push.
So it is not like I have warts and will
give warts to others. But always the
virus, and it may not have warts.
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1/30/2004 7:28:44 PM
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Joe
Do some reading. You may not always
carry the virus either.
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1/30/2004 7:31:46 PM
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Well im sure the guy didnt rip off your
clothes, and i dont know where your
hanging out or meeting these guys but
it sounds like a serious problem if
your letting guys just do whatever they
want to your body. I live in NYC and
if i tell a guy no, it means no, and
some guys here are crazy but if i dont
want sex i dont have sex! Dont let
yourself get in that situation, its not
just the guys fault.
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1/30/2004 7:32:37 PM
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Obviously clothes were being taken off
and you could have said no way before
that even happened you dont have to
wait until the guy tries to make a move
towards sex to say no, sounds like
theres a real problem there besides the
HPV
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1/30/2004 7:57:20 PM
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weaky
Yes, I always know that I have a real
problem about refusing guys. There are
a lot of times that I got clothes
ripped off, and I said right at that
time I do not want to have sex.
Sometimes guys even promised "nothing
is going to happen". There were times
that guys pulled out after I few pushes
and realized that they was technically
raping me. But after this, I think I
will be really tough on refusing.
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1/30/2004 8:48:05 PM
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Joe
Honestly, the problem you're having
saying "no" and hanging out wiht
quality guys is 100 times worse than
having HPV IMO. HPV is a
nuisance...the other stuff is setting
you up for more serious failures.
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1/30/2004 8:56:36 PM
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weaky
Very true. I talked to an ex, and he
did the same thing to me after we broke
up. He was forcing. And he knows what I
am talking about. He agreed that I said
no, and pushed his away. He said I
should had kicked him at his nuts. What
I am saying is, guys know how guys are,
especially you are facing a woman that
does not kick, because you know you are
going to get what you want. I NEED TO
LEARN HOW TO KICK.
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1/30/2004 11:48:27 PM
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redhair
I did not not sleep anyone over a year
then I had my boyfriend.We went out
almost 2 and half months, at the and I
had warts and he does not.And I do
think, he gave me this virus.Any
different idea?
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1/31/2004 12:00:22 AM
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Joe
Incubation period for the virus could
be over a year so it's hard to say who
you got it from. It really doesn't
matter a whole lot at this point anyway
IMO. Get healthy, stay healthy, get
treatment if needed and don't stress.
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1/31/2004 12:06:35 AM
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weaky
Thank you. I had my first acid
treatment on Thursday. And my warts are
around 2 or 3 and are close together.
They are about a size of an eraser
together. After the treatment, today I
found it goes pretty well. They are
reduced at least by 1/3. Is it a good
progress?
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1/31/2004 10:16:12 AM
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Jodie
Yes, that is good progress. Are you
calling yourself weaky to make fun of
yourself? It sounds to me like you
should find a guy that appreciates you
for who you are, not what you lick.
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1/31/2004 11:54:25 AM
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weaky
Now, the cauliflower like surface has
peeled off. I just wish I can have
another treatment right away, so I can
have another layer peel off. But my
appointment is on Wednesday. I have
been look into the mirror and I am
afraid of any tiny warts that will
start to spread inwards. But I am
praying and praying, hope it does not.
Actually, there are quite a lot of guys
had comments like I am a really good
catch, and they become my really good
friends.
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1/31/2004 11:56:57 AM
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weaky
Some kept running after me that made me
scary, and of course some took
advantage of me. I am expecting my
period in a few days, how can I deal
with the hygiene when I have warts? Any
suggestions?
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1/31/2004 1:22:18 PM
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blondee
keep the area clean. Use tampons.
Pads irritate, and i have found seem to
spread them with all the rubbing.
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1/31/2004 1:58:22 PM
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weaky
But my warts are near the far end of
the lips, that is near the entrance.
(That is one reason I am afraid that
will spread inwards, I am suspecting
some tiny warts a little bit inwards.)
Will inerting of tampons make the warts
spread inside?
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1/31/2004 2:24:47 PM
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blondee
i dunno... if they are gonna end up
inside, i dont think the tampon is
going to cause it. Go 2 a dr and ask
em there.
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1/31/2004 2:55:51 PM
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weaky
blondee, how long did you take to treat
all the warts, and does it spread when
you are treating it? I think it hasn't
been growing or spreading since I knew
there is a "bump". Will it spread now?
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1/31/2004 3:16:05 PM
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blondee
everyones case is different. I have
been undergoing tx for 2.5 mos. it
sucks. They started on my vulva but
spread elsewhere due to shaving. So
dont shave. Others came up in the
past wks becasue it takes a bit of
time for them to "harvest" just try
to stay healthy.
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1/31/2004 3:36:24 PM
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weaky
so I should ask the doctor to put
solution that make the warts turn
white, and have treatment on those
areas instead of just on visible warts?
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1/31/2004 3:46:33 PM
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blondee
the dr probably wont put vinegar. go
to the dr! They will prob use liquid
nitro or acid to get rid of ones they
see an daske for aldara.
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1/31/2004 3:50:38 PM
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weaky
I already had an acid treatment on
Thursday, and some peeled off. The
warts become smaller. The next
treatment is on Wednesday. I wonder if
I can have the treatment once it peels
off, or I have to wait for a week to be
safe to apply acid again.
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1/31/2004 3:54:15 PM
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blondee
umm i dunno. i never had them that
close 2gether. they were 2wks apart.
its good to hit them close together
tho, hit em hard.
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1/31/2004 4:20:33 PM
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weaky
Thanks, blondee. Does it peel off once
after each acid treatment or a few
times?
I think I am close enough then, and I
am going to have a pap smear, hoping
that I have no HSV or HPV that causes
cancer.
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1/31/2004 5:25:59 PM
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blondee
yes it peels off. its the dead
skin/wart.
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2/1/2004 12:23:26 AM
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weaky
I have checked with my naked eyes, and
tried to put vinegar on the whole
genital area, I think that pea-size
area is all i have warts. But because
that area, it is sometimes itchy near
the clit. What do you think it might
be? Can it be herpes? or other things?
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2/1/2004 9:06:37 AM
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Joe
We're not doctors, we can't see and
dont' know for sure. You should go get
checked out.
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2/1/2004 4:07:45 PM
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weaky
I know, sorry about that. But my next
check up is on wed, and I am afraid
that is too far away. And the doctor
does not treat my case as a big deal.
She did not see the warts 2 weeks ago
when I went there. I called her up
telling her something's happening, and
that was the time she saw it. So I am
afraid she missed some other warts and
other stuff too.
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2/1/2004 9:06:13 PM
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get a different dr if you feel that way
we wont be able to make your warts go
away! My dr told me i had HPV but at
the time had no outbreak so perhaps you
didnt either it seemed like three days
after she told i had an outbreak so
perhaps they werent there, talk to her,
and she treats it like no big deal
because compared to other things this
isnt...warts are gross yes i have one
on my hand and hate it, unless you dont
take care of yourself and become
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2/1/2004 9:07:26 PM
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cont
totally covered in warts what else
could really happen , sure youll have
to have surgery but dont let it get to
that point this IS something you can
control this doesnt have to control YOU
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2/3/2004 1:33:44 PM
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M
Weaky, I know this is tough. I think
we all freaked out at first, but try
and keep your cool. Anyway, as someone
said up there, I think you're not being
able to refuse guys is a worse problem
so try and do something about that,
OK? I have a friend who has the same
problem and at 42 she is a mess. I'm
assuming you're still young. Now is
the time to take control so that you
don't end up where she is.
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2/4/2004 6:52:28 PM
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weaky
Thank you, M. I am not saying I have no
responsiblity, but weird enough, most
guys consider me as a pure, naive, but
can be hot and sexy in bed kind of
woman. I don't know if that is what
makes them think I can be used. And I
am 25. You would be surprise how many
guys used me like that in the past 2
years. I am not an American, so I think
it took me long to get to know American
culture. But I will work on it, and I
think after this, I will learn.
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2/4/2004 6:59:58 PM
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weaky
By the way, I had my end acid treatment
and the dr. gave me some Aldara. I
think there is a small area what the
dr. did not apply scid treatment.
Should I start using Aldara right now
or after the dead skin has peeled off?
She said she saw one wart on my cervix,
and took it off. I am really worried
about having more warts inside.
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2/5/2004 12:00:21 AM
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blondee
i started the aldara that night they
didnt grow back. its been 5 wks now.
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2/6/2004 6:16:57 PM
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Mary
Weaky, are you a Scorpio by any chance?
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2/6/2004 9:59:57 PM
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weaky
No, I am a Taurus. But I am absolutely
freaking out by these warts. I saw a
bump on the inner lip near the opening.
I am worrying about them spreading
further in. I am pouring vinegar on
myself every other day to see if there
are any suspected shots turning white.
I use medicated wipes, and if I go to
bathroom at home, I blow dry every
time. I am going crazy...
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