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Posted: 11/1/2004

When do I tell her?

I just got diagnosed with HPV 5 months ago. I don't know who I got it from. My X went and got tested and doesn't have it. I've been dating someone new for about a month now. When do I tell her I have HPV? How do I tell her?

Comments:

11/1/2004 4:40:37 PM - Jen
If you have any respect for her, and
yourself, tell her immediately. It
will show you exactly why she's dating
you. If she bails, she wasn't worth
your time. If she stays and is willing
to consider options, it will show you
she's into YOU, not your dick. I guess
it says a lot about you. At least
you're concerned with it. Let's just
say there aren't so many decent men out
there anymore. Honesty is always the
best way to go. If I were her, I'd
want to know.

11/2/2004 8:08:05 AM -
Tell her the fact .....she never
forgive you!

11/2/2004 5:01:46 PM - Roussan
What would JESUS do?

11/3/2004 3:49:43 PM -
I don't believe JESUS would be
sleeping around.


11/3/2004 4:56:04 PM - SA
brilliant come back..

11/3/2004 5:06:20 PM - JSK
Do people take these questions
seriously? Give advice not rederic!

11/3/2004 9:39:43 PM -
it is so much better to let the person
know..you'll never forgive yourself
later if you dont

11/6/2004 6:53:12 AM - female
men cant be tested for hpv. there is no
known test. in 1 -2 years ur immune system
will flush it out. till then keep a condom on
but even that wont fix it comletely. its hard to
find clean people these days. get a pap
follow up if ur a girl if ur a guy, i have no idea
how u got an hpv positive. it must be a
miracle cause theres no test for it.

11/8/2004 2:07:25 PM - John
LOL...dude...do you have warts or not?

11/9/2004 5:39:55 PM - lisa
Well if you're a guy and have it you
will know if you have an outbreak I'm
not sure about you trying to claim that
your immune system will flush out?
Where did you get that from but most
defiantly you need to let her know if
she leaves whatever there's more girls
out there.

11/10/2004 7:49:39 AM -
www.hpvforum.com

11/16/2004 12:53:47 AM - john
just wear a condom dude and dont tell
her. these females out here aint even
got the grace to ask you to wear one
when they know what they got. just wear
a condom information is for when you
gonna marry the girl just wear condoms
people

11/17/2004 12:10:27 AM - kermit
yeah u people just need to quit
fucking around you do it without
protection then u wonder how did i get
this shit on my pussy?

11/17/2004 9:36:31 PM -
CONDOMS DO NOT PROTECT Against HPV.
DO not listen to that advice above.
It can be spread skin to skin. If
your a sleeze ball & don't tell her
make sure you keep your boxers on &
wear a condom. Don't let her touch
your genital skin & no oral sex
without a condom. You Can give her
CANCER with carelessness & she could
loose her uterous & her life!!!

11/19/2004 5:21:12 PM - mandy
I read also that your immune system
will get rid of this in a few years. If
you have Hpv with no visible warts do
you have warts or hpv?????????

11/20/2004 5:54:20 AM -
you have hpv. hpv is a virus, it can
cause genital warts (an effect of the
virus). the medical term for GW is
condyloma acuminata. heres more info.
http://www.5mcc.com/Assets/SUMMARY/TP02
22.html

11/20/2004 5:57:29 AM -
john, you are a prick. you obviously
view women you sleep with as nothing
but objects to fulfill your sexual
desires b/c if you even gave one iota
about what happens to them, you would
tell them. it is very rare that it
could kill you, but it could
permenantly RUIN her life or even kill
her. Thanks alot asshole!

12/7/2004 10:42:48 AM -
a guy I dated told me he had hpv. we
abstained from sex and were careful but
I contracted anyway. tell her, give her
info and suggest speaking to a doctor.
there are risks. but she needs to make
that decision


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