How do you tell your parents you have something like HPV?
Also . . . is it hard to find a partner? I'm embarrassed, I don't want to tell my future partner because they might tell other people. But I'm not going to be sexual with (him) because that'd be wrong! So what happens now? Will I ever find a boyfriend? I don't want to go on any dating things with people with HPV though.
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1/25/2005 2:06:00 PM
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why do you need to tell your parents? how old are you? is their a specific reason you NEED to inform your parents? as far as finding a new partner, look at hpv as a blessing. it will weed out any guys that are after you just for sex, b/c they run with their tails between their legs when they cant get sex. anytime you are in an intimate relationship, you run the risk of being embarassed. you are exposing your most intimate self to someone,
1/25/2005 2:13:52 PM
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cont from above
and they could exploit you as well, even before you had hpv. i understand being scared someone is gonna tell other ppl, but look at it this way. guys have this nasty habit of talking about us gals, what they've done with us sexually, what we look like naked, etc. THIS is extremely embarassing. telling someone you have an std, is just part of life. just remember, their are things that can be a lot worse although i must ask, why dont you want to date others with hpv?
1/25/2005 4:31:53 PM
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you wont find anyone on those sites with hpv anyways...no one looks at this as a big deal. its just part of being sexually active
1/25/2005 11:38:37 PM
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Me
I'm NOT sexually active. I was raped and I hate to tell people that. I did not chose to have sex with this guy and it just frustrates me and makes me so angry to know he did this to me. What did you first do when you found out you had hpv? Did you tell your partner if you had one or tell a guy you later were with? how did they react?
