Posted: 1/31/2005

Try Staying Positive

I found out I had hpv one year ago,when I went to the doctors for my yearly pap. I knew when he said that I had to have surgery that week that I finally got the disease my old boyfriend of 6 yrs gave me. He cheated on me and it took 5 years to finally show up on my paps. He is dead and gone now and I have a wonderful soon to be husband that has stood by me through all of this. I had to go to the doctor for my first wart two weeks ago and i was devastated at first, but my fiance is so supportive and yet got me through another mishap. I hope the medicine that I am on will clear it up. I just wish everyone had to support system like I do. It really make you feel terrible when they start to surface, but try to be positive. It's easier said then done, believe me I know. Not everybody is as understanding as we would want them to be, find a real true frind that will not judge you. It helps to talk about it.

Comments:

1/31/2005 10:34:54 PM -
good luck!

2/1/2005 10:55:23 AM - Thank you
I hope I am as lucky as you. That's my
one main concern about this is not
being able to find someone after all
of this. I will have to tell him and
it's going to be so hard - I really
don't look foward to that day I have
to tell him - and also I'm not as
confident as I used to be

2/1/2005 7:58:31 PM - Haruka
You are very lucky to find someone who
can be with you after that. Not many
men are very tolerable when it comes
to this touchy subject. It sucks for
me because have this disease had
surely ruined my relationship with my
future boyfriends. I only wish the
best for you.

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