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Personal Experiences with HPV and Genital Warts
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Posted: 11/19/2009
I WANT THINGS TO BE BETTER-
- (13 ) comments.
4 years ago, i made the biggest mistake of my life. i lie to my boyfriend about my HPV. we were dating,drinking and i messed up. i told him a few days later. when he found out he didnt act really mad. he was very quite though. after telling him, he went to get tested. he told me he was clean. and he forgave me for what i did and we can move on with our relationship. for the first 2 years we never bother using comdoms. he said he like the way i felt unprotected. as crazy as it sounds it was true. every time we had sex, he would take a shower and he did that for almost 2 years. then i got pregnant. but we decide not to have the baby, so i had an abortion and i dont even believe in abortions but me and him were 21 years old at the time and he was in college. but for the last 2 years we've been using a comdom but when i had the abortion,my body change and sex hurts and sometimes i cry during sex. and he doesnt seem to care to must about my body after the abortion, and during sex he didnt seem to care when i cry from the pain. but he doesnt have my std, so he says. and he says he got tested 3 times. but there are times when i dont want sex because of the pain. he can be pretty mean. he calls me names, thinks im cheating. and yells at me and says Wait UNTIL I GET TESTED. but he told me 4 years ago that he had gotten tested. now im sad and i cry all the time because i never mean to hurt him. but why would he tell me he was clean, even after 2 years of having unprotected sex for 2 years but been using comdoms for the last 2. what should i do and how do i fix this? Is it that because i lie 4 years ago, he got revenge on me?
Comments:
11/23/2009 2:43:08 PM
- Rozmarie,Athens
It is not your fault if you are in pain
during sex. You should visit a
gynecologist and solve the problem,
the doctor will show you the way to
follow a treatment for the pain. Your
boyfriend hasnt got the right to call
you with names or treat you badly, as
he said he has forgiven you. If really
has forgiven you, then he SHOULD be
really patient about what u are going
through. Anyway, visit a gynecologist
to have a check on you and solve the
pain during sex.
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12/13/2009 11:46:24 PM
- AV
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12/13/2009 11:46:24 PM
- A
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5/3/2010 9:57:43 PM
- just me
he sounds aweful, leave him.
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5/21/2010 10:38:06 AM
- anonymous
leave him. You obviously want to. do the right thing,
stop being weak.
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5/21/2010 10:38:40 AM
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leave him
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5/21/2010 10:38:53 AM
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leave him
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5/21/2010 10:39:11 AM
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leave him
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8/29/2010 5:57:14 AM
- MikeP
listen to everyone - what you have is NOT
a good relationship - leave him and find a
guy who will treat you right!!
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12/8/2010 8:43:25 PM
- mel
what was the question again?
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3/24/2011 6:55:26 AM
- e
when someone has sex with you and does
not xare about you being in pain then it
can translate into the following>>> he
really does not care about you... and
the fact that he is accusing you of
infidelity shows a low self esteem and
unstable character... believe me you
have the upper hand here...
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